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# [[dua/death|Duas related to death/dying]] | # [[dua/death|Duas related to death/dying]] | ||
# And know that if the nation were to gather together to benefit you with anything, they would not benefit you except with what Allah had already prescribed for you. And if they were to gather together to harm you with anything, they would not harm you except with what Allah had already prescribed against you. [https://sunnah.com/nawawi40:19] | # And know that if the nation were to gather together to benefit you with anything, they would not benefit you except with what Allah had already prescribed for you. And if they were to gather together to harm you with anything, they would not harm you except with what Allah had already prescribed against you. [https://sunnah.com/nawawi40:19] | ||
# ...the angel who blows his soul into him and who is commanded with four matters: to write down his rizq (sustenance), his life span, his actions, and whether he will be happy or unhappy (i.e., whether or not he will enter Paradise). [https://sunnah.com/nawawi40:4] [https://muslim.sg/articles/the-concept-of-rizq-sustenance-in-islam] | # ...the angel who blows his soul into him and who is commanded with four matters: to write down his rizq (sustenance), his life span, his actions, and whether he will be happy or unhappy (i.e., whether or not he will enter Paradise). [https://sunnah.com/nawawi40:4] [https://muslim.sg/articles/the-concept-of-rizq-sustenance-in-islam] ... [[hadith/seek the beneficial lesson]] ([[qadr]], saying lau / if only...) | ||
# Increase the night prayers in seclusion/loneliness (the black slave story as [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UqED1C17XVQ&list=PLTkIiPFSFwYH9C4od7dWgmHCM60V5VUa_&index=10 told by Dr Shadee] and [https://muslimmatters.org/2016/02/26/someone-beat-us-to-allah-translations-from-ibn-al-jawzi-in-almuntatham-fi-siyar-almuluk-wal-umam/ Ammar via MuslimMatters.com]), prioritizing one's vertical relationship with Allah vs the need/desire of belonging, being liked, etc with the people (horizantal)... [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_HkZMYA60VU 12th min] by Sh. Mohammad Elshinawy. | # Increase the night prayers in seclusion/loneliness (the black slave story as [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UqED1C17XVQ&list=PLTkIiPFSFwYH9C4od7dWgmHCM60V5VUa_&index=10 told by Dr Shadee] and [https://muslimmatters.org/2016/02/26/someone-beat-us-to-allah-translations-from-ibn-al-jawzi-in-almuntatham-fi-siyar-almuluk-wal-umam/ Ammar via MuslimMatters.com]), prioritizing one's vertical relationship with Allah vs the need/desire of belonging, being liked, etc with the people (horizantal)... [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_HkZMYA60VU 12th min] by Sh. Mohammad Elshinawy. | ||
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==How to Stop Feeling Nostalgic for an Ex - School of Life== | ==How to Stop Feeling Nostalgic for an Ex - School of Life== |